If you’re guilty of committing any of the following holiday fouls…
- Crying yourself to sleep every night leading to December, in December, and after December.
- Pawning your old VHS tapes to pay the minimum payment on your credit card bill just so you can have a little extra room to put more on it.
- Plotting the deaths of your neighbor’s reindeer lawn ornaments because one of them looked at you funny, and you need to defend your honor.
…step away from the solid fudge Nutcracker and put down the whiskey masquerading as eggnog.
Feeling inadequate for not being able to afford a crapload of crap for your family and friends is – you guessed it – crap.
So, why do so many of us continue flailing through the holidays in this unseemly manner?
Consumerism is contagious, a pesky bug which thrives on infecting our bank accounts and our psyches.
But, it’s all around us and there is no flu shot or magical elixir we can use to cop out. It is solely up to us to keep ourselves healthy, to become immune to this airborne excessiveness.
Does that mean you can’t participate in the gift of giving? No, it doesn’t.
Does it mean you can change your ways and give on a modest budget? Indeed, it does.
Just step outside of that shiny snowflake box – be cheap and creative!
Scenario #1: The family that’s impossible to shop for.
Gift cards get a bad rap (or wrap, if you will…ho, ho, ho) but they’re also easy, flexible, and crowd-pleasing.
Back when I was still living in Texas, my mom and I came up with the idea to do a gift card exchange in which each person bought one gift card rather than buying for everyone and breaking the bank. A reasonable denomination was decided and communicated to the family.
To make things interesting, my mom read ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas and we had to switch gift cards around the table each time a particular word was recited.
Obviously, this can be utilized with any holiday poem or story depending on your persuasion. Choose common words like “and” or “the” to ensure lots of trading comes into play.
For creativity bonus points, have each person write one or two sentences then combine them into one nonsensical holiday story.
For calorie burning bonus points, have everyone run around and switch seats instead of passing by hand.
Scenario #2: The family that’s possible to shop for.
Used bookstores are a gifting treasure chest if you feel confident about the merry interests of your fam.
Fueled by coffee and shoestring budget determination, my hubby and I hit up a multi-level used bookstore here in Milwaukee and selected one dusty book for each family member for the holidays last year.
I gotta say…we made out like a couple of elfin bandits in that bookstore.
My mother-in-law was our greatest challenge because she has read just about every book in creation. So, we put our heads together and came up with one of our best gift ideas ever. And although this is top secret stuff, I’m gonna share it with you.
My hubby is one of seven kids…that’s right – seven!
To represent each of them, we gave my mother-in-law vintage National Graphic’s for the birth month and year of each of her wonderful children.
Needless to say, she loved it!
This gift idea is thoughtful, heart-warming, and original – feel free to explore different magazine collections (Time, Vogue, etc). Although in my opinion, you can’t go wrong with National Geographic…ever.
Bottom line…that over-indulgent holiday mentality is unnecessary and absurd. It invites stress into your family time, and who in the hell wants him to crash the festivities anyway?
When in doubt, just give some love.
Do you guys have any inexpensive gift ideas out there? I’d love to hear them. I might steal one this year.